4 Ways To Get Sexy For Boudoir
For each consultation I always ask my Beauties, my clients, to use 3 to 4 words that describe who they are at the time in their life. Rarely does the word sexy come up. The words pretty, helpful, resilient, kind and I’ve even heard I don’t know. Ā With this in mind here are 4 ways to get sexy for a boudoir experience! Enjoy.
1.LOSE WEIGHT
We all in some form or fashion have had a friend, family member or even a complete stranger say we need to lose weight. If we just lost a little weight we would look better. Or recently I heard if so and so lost weight they could get and keep a man. Whew child! Those people are not you friends and even family can get a side eye and blocked. SEXY HAS NO SIZE! Sexy, like confidence, is a state of mind. No amount of weight loss will make you feel sexy if you don’t believe it.
2. DONT SMILE
During the initial consultation, we are laughing and having an amazing time getting to know each other. That same energy is carried into the actual experience. Joy is sexy. Laughter is sexy. Being happy is sexy! A boudoir experience is one way to honor your body as it is now. Your body is a work of art. It nourishes you, it has kept you alive during this pandemic. It needs to be celebrated. We need to look at our bodies and smile.
3. STRAIGHTEN YOUR HAIRĀ
For special occasions throughout our history getting our hair pressed was a rite of passage. You have seen the memes around Easter of the hot comb. Or having to straighten your hair to look more presentable to get that job interview. Discrimination around our hair is very real and alive and well. Our hair is a beautiful reflection of who we are whether it be braided, relaxed, cornrowed, etc. All of these styles are sexy because we make them sexy. You make them sexy.
4. Only Wear Lingerie
When it comes to a boudoir experience you are in total control of what you place on your body. Lingerie is not really my jam. I love a good silk robe or my waistbands and nothing at all. That is my version of getting sexy. Yes, I have a full client closet with lingerie from sizes 5XL to XS. I also have sweaters, dress shirts, tank tops, crop tops, and t-shirts. Just like Black & Brown womxn come in all forms and shades, your sexy look should be a reflection of you.
Guest Blogger:
Olesha Haskett
One Comment
Candy
I love all of these because I really thought I had to wear lingerie. I am not comfortable with having certain parts of my body showing, so wearing anything lace or see through would make me feel uncomfortable. That is really good to know.